Monday, May 11, 2009

WE DO HAVE CHOICES IN LIFE...

People develop their maturity based on what they learn and experience throughout life and formal education. Some make it to the top but most will either remain average or unsuccessful in their endeavors.

The questions are;
Why couldn't everybody becomes successful?
What does it take to become successful?
What separates successful people from the unsuccessful one?
Is it so difficult to be successful?
Don't we have something like 'one size fits all' formula that could be applied to be successful?
Is success a journey or a destination?
Why can't every MAN OR WOMAN be on equal basis?

And so on...

Young fellas especially, are confused on the importance of being successful. Most have the 'Poor Dad' attitude in which rather than asking themselves on 'how can I afford that?', they instead telling themselves every now and then that they can never afford that.

They put the blame to the karma that they are not meant to be successful in the first place.

They believe in this so much that they never even thought of putting the slightest effort that could turn their lives around. They live day to day without having a clear purpose and meaning on their lives. They believe in this so much and there is nothing can be done about it.

This is very wrong indeed. As a matter of fact, we do have choices and options in life. It is us who creates our own destiny. Though certain factors and handicapped are undeniably true, but the fact of whether we achieve what we want or otherwise are very much depending on what actions that we take in the first place.

Did we do something about it? Have we done enough? Are we doing the right things?

Ask yourself and surely you'll find the answers within you. It is not only action that counts, you must also believe that your actions will direct you to your final destination. Otherwise, you may be driving forward, but instead of going north, you may be heading south... unintentionally.

In short, be clear with your choices as well... or you will probably end up going to the wrong direction.

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