At times, I am very tired dealing with people who thinks that they are among the greatest human being in this world. Some of them are even your close colleagues.
Their attitude is simple - They can easily put any sort of tagging on anyone's forehead even after the 1st meeting, and especially after you make a mistake. They are not a forgiver so later, whenever they hear something comes over from your tongue, you don't even have the chance to explain yourself before being cut out by their self-proclaimed "expert" opinion.
They can simply tell that you are wrong even without really knowing what you are trying to tell. At least they can ask but they don't. Get the point?
Hadn't these people realize that they are somehow very annoying to be dealt with? From my observation, these people are hardly achievers in their life as well, but they walk & talk a lot instead of shut-up and listen.
The reason I am pointing this out is simply to express my feeling of how weak and pity these people are indeed. They thought they are smart and they tend to believe that they know a lot, even without really reading and studying anything on that particular subject.
Since most of these people tend to be middle age man, they hardly learn and they believe their experience is more than enough for them to make sound judgment on what is going on around them.
And you know what... this is the main problem of middle and older aged man. They don't listen and they don't learn especially from someone who appears to be younger than them. As a result, jealousy comes in and they will have 1001 reasons on why these youngsters are more successful than them later on.
You see the problem here is not really with the young people, it is with the old & senior people who has bad habit within them & pure reluctance in listening to opinions and accept changes.
I am not very young also, but I enjoy a lot working with people younger and smarter than me, so that I keep on improving myself by extracting whatever knowledge and skills that I can learn from these youngsters.
By the way...
No one's perfect after all... so be it.
;)
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