Wednesday, March 3, 2010

LOOK FOR STRENGTH AND ACCEPT WEAKNESSES...

When dealing with people, whether we already knew, just know or hardly know, most tend to be very individualistic in such a way we like to look for people weaknesses rather than strength.

Agree or Not?

Ok, the point here is that we humans are very prone to look for reasons and factors that somehow we are better, richer, or whatever than the other persons. Though this is pretty universal and natural to human beings, I discovered remaining in such a state will give you more trouble rather than advantage.

Yup, being humble, nice, and down to earth is always the ideal and preferred attitude for most people. But to be good is not that easy either. Tendency to look for faults, errors and mistakes by the other party is always there. We love to point fingers to others in a way we forget that the rest 4 fingers are pointing back at  us...

Anyway, take these tips, live with it and hang on it... chances are you will prosper better than anyone else.

1. When dealing with someone, always look for their strength.
2. If you discover any weaknesses, hold it within you as your secret weapon. Do not reveal or tell unless they ask what could be improved...
3. In order to improve yourself, always ask for feedbacks and opinions. It may not be pleasant to know and learn your weaknesses from a third party point of view, but trust me, it helps a lot, especially from someone you can trust.

Last but not least, learn to appreciate people's time and always say thank you regardless of how big or small that person's contribution is...

To me...

Being nice doesn't mean that you are weak...

By the way, this blog is still alive... It's just that I was too occupied with my day job (PSR2 Revamp Project Final Stage - since Dec 2009) that I didn't even have time to trade almost for the whole month...

For sure I will write more on forex matters this month after everything is settled... I mean my project.

Take care...

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