Friday, October 30, 2009

MY RETIREMENT FROM BOWLING...

It's been more than 8 years since I started my bowling 'career' from zero (if I may call it a career.. haha) playing plenty of external graded events and company's tournaments, with hardly leaving any significant names behind among the top graded players in Malaysia, but I did have my days and satisfactions.

Listed belows are the key chronologies that I can recall as a graded bowler.

2001
- First serious interest began after I started working with this oil & gas refinery, joining some bowling groups after several months working with the company.

2002
- Bought my first bowling ball, bags and bowling shoes
- Playing straight ball... a total beginner to the old timers.


2003
- Still playing straight ball with serious learning on techniques and basics
- Finding my ways towards mastery

2004
- Already built some solid technical foundation
- Convert to Spinner/Helicopter style of playing with Jimmy Lee & Uncle Woo's (Melaka Head Coach) guidance.
- Spend thousands on buying books and dvd's from Amazon.com

2005
- 1st time selected for Oil Business Team, but kept as reserved.
- 1st significant victory winning the Electrical Dept yearly bowling tournament.
- 10th place in the Company's Masters Event.

2006
- Appointed as Asst Convener for the company's bowling team
- Change to hook style, unsuccessful after 6 months and revert back to Spinner
- Did not qualify for Oil Business
- Selected to play for Melaka under the Sukan Gemaputra organized by PKNM
- Team won 1st & 2nd for Melaka Industrial Championship
- 3rd in Company's Masters Event
- 5th in Melaka State Selection Qualifying for the Interstate Event in KL

2007
- The best year ever for me as a Bowling Player
- Selected as Captain for Oil Business - Team won 2nd.
- Appointed as Convener/Captain for the Company's Team - 1st & 2nd for Melaka Industrial Championship.
- Selected for ASCOPE Game in Manilla - team won 3rd place
- Champion 9 pin tap at Seremban Monthly Graded Event on April - won RM500
- Champion 9 pin tap at Extreme Bowl Melaka in May - won RM300
- Champion Piala Puteri UMNO Alor Gajah... haha
- 4th in Piala Ketua Polis Melaka Event
- 8th in Piala Datuk Bandar Single Event
- 5th in OLE Event Daiman Bowl in Johor winning RM600
- 12th in 369 Final Event @ Seremban Parade

2008
- Played for Oil Business - Team Champion
- Resigned from both Company & Oil Business Team Captain position due to work demand
- 2nd in Company's Masters Event
- Team maintained 1st, 2nd & 3rd in Melaka Industrial Championship
- Hardly top 20 in most external graded events.

2009
- Didn't qualify for Oil Business, came as supporter on the last day of tournament, team Champion in style, retaining last year's title.
- Melaka Industrial Championship, Team won 1st, 2nd & 3rd... for 4 years in a row now
- Found new interest & commitment...
- Fully retire from Bowling in November 2009

2010
- I am sure no more...


Return on Investment (ROI)

- Total spent excluding game fees (more than RM20,000)
- Total return ( less than RM10,000)
- Summary - Loss in terms of monetary value, but great on the satisfaction side.

I believe it is time to say goodbye to the rest of the team, though definitely I will keep on supporting them.

So, what's next? Perhaps it's a good time to start my long awaited golf career... Yet to start but perhaps not so soon as there are too little time for me at the moment...

All the best to you guys...




Wednesday, October 28, 2009

MAKING A PERFECT ENTRY...

Just had a chat with one of my trading colleague yesterday and he asked one simple question that has always been asked...

HOW DO I MAKE A PERFECT ENTRY?

Simple on the wordings but definitely not on the execution. Anyway I did write previously on this topic "MASTERING THE PERFECT ENTRY SKILLS" but this time I will focus more on answering this one question straight away...

Here are my answers...

1. 1st of all, no one can never know exactly whether he or she will make a perfect entry or not... no one... and I'm very sure about this.

2. Base on my analysis, professional and institutional traders plan their entry base on certain set of rules & setups from both their technical and fundamental analysis of the market. Nevertheless, most of them are more inclined to technical analysis like the exponential moving averages, Fibonacci levels, previous supports and resistances, as well as Elliot Wave Theories... to name a few.

3. Entry rules are created base on self-fulfilling prophecy in which at certain levels of price action, buyers and sellers will act accordingly to what they believe. Majority will win... simple.

4. Do not take the daily Economic News for granted especially on the timing. They are indeed the market movers where traders and banks are in putting their trades accordingly to the sentiment generated from that news. The safest way is to enter 15 minutes after the news, when the market is clear on its intention. Though news effect are usually faded during any strong trend, but the volatility effect of its spikes could be catastrophic to your account.

5. Timing is everything. Watch the clock every time you feel like entering the market. I would highly recommend you to enter the market during London Session only using the 15 minutes to 1 hour interval time frames. Anything smaller than 15 minutes are not recommended.

6. Most position traders do even put their trade right after New York close each day (5am local time here) or create pending orders (ie OCO orders) base on previous day high and low. This is especially effective in a strongly trend and breakouts market conditions.

7. Something that I read from Trade2Win.com, it's not a matter of getting a good entry or not, it's a matter of holding a good position and pulling out immediately from a bad trade that counts.

8. The real guardians to your account is the money management rules that you apply when positioning your trade in the market. You must know sort of risks that you are facing upfront so that in case you're wrong, you knew exactly what will happen.

9. Make your own analysis and act accordingly to what you see, especially the price actions, not on what you hear. Of course, you need to learn and gain certain experience before you can start doing this.

10. Always remember, we are the small fishermen in this forex world so don't ever thought that our tiny orders would ever move the market, coz it won't. It's the overall influx of market orders, especially the big boys who make all the difference that we plan to take advantage of. That is why it is best to stay out during thin market condition, especially during the Asian Session.

11. Most importantly, control yourself. That's how most good entries are made of. Don't be too brave or too fear in making any trade decision. You are in full control if you can control yourself. In fact, this is how you can actually gain the best lesson from this trading arena, in which super-traders continuously gain their long-life trading experience by actually learning on how to control themselves. For sure you will know yourself better, who you are in reality when dealing with real money once you start trading live. Try it and you'll see! It's fun getting to know yourself better coz otherwise you wouldn't know... as this is one of the most prominent lesson from trading.

To conclude my answers, there are hundreds of books and articles written about this topic alone, promoting such and such system that claimed to be fool-proof etc etc. Don't get caught in such gimmicks since the most important element that you have to master in making good entries is no other than yourself. I'm sure if you're a trader you would agree with me 100%.

Nevertheless, what I have written above are the points that I believe the most important from my own view and perspective.

Imagine this...

Just like a good pilot who has flew safely for more than 20 years, it's a matter of his good flying practice and habits that keep him on the air longer than any other pilots, regardless of how bad the weather and technical difficulties that he may had encountered along the way.

Compared this to trading, there is no one point that is more important than the others since it is the collective amount of good habits and techniques that you apply that would contribute towards the overall success for you as a trader.

Monday, October 26, 2009

ANY NEWS COULD SLASHED YOU APART... BEWARE!

I've always put extra attention to news release no matter how the expected impact would be.

Referrring to the news release by forex factory, the red news come with the most impact, the orange is medium whereas the yellow is the least impact.

What you see above is the orange category news release at 4.30pm local time for UK GDP Data last Friday, 23rd Oct 2009. Though the deviaton is not that significant from my perspective, the impact was devastating, taking down 300 pips from the moment the news release until later that night beyond London close.

See, the point here, I had a few trading colleagues who were eaten alive due to this news. There were cruising long when the price started coming up that afternoon from 1.6625 up till 1.6693 before the tsunami attacked suddenly at 4.30pm.

As for me, I was going short base on my technical analysis at 1.6625 that afternoon and set my stops at 100 pips away, at 1.6725. Fortunately I was away from my station when the price suddenly hiked to 1.6685 in which I knew this while checking the price on the move. If I was around, I would have closed my trade already in oder to limit the damage. Hence, I thought it's a lost trade already since I have no way of controlling them due to being away from my trading station. So I just closed the trading webs from my iphone and just return to home as usual that evening at around 5.30pm...

Later when I went up to my station to see if there could be any new trading setup for other pairs, to my surprise it was indeed a winning trade with 160 pips plus already showed up on my screen... jumping up and down, I straight away closed the position without thinking twice at +157 pips in the bank... great! I thought for a while since it's already a bonus to capture such a nice return for something that I earlier thought as a loss already...

This is another point, later I realize that due to sudden adrenaline rush of seeing such a big win, I could have hold that position even longer by putting my stops to +100, and +150 accordingly instead of closing it immediately. Why? Because the price never return and it keep on going down to 300 pips level from my entry until later that night before the market closed on Saturday morning.

Though I am thankful for the winning trade, I knew I could have done better in such situation, if I were in control especially when the market was on my side. Anyway, still a good trade from the whole perspective.
Back to the news matter, as you coud have read somewhere else, do not presume what the impact would be.

This is just one nice example of how news could move the market beyond your wildest imagination.

For now, I am waiting and expecting some correction on the EUR/USD pair... I could see that the bulls are a bit running out of steam already. The overall trend is undeniably up... but certainly technical corrections do need to happen in order to balance the supply and demand. The question is only when? Perhaps next week prior to the NFP on Friday... we'll see...

Have A Nice Trading Week...

;)




Thursday, October 22, 2009

THE REALITY OF FOREX TRADING...

Apart from my day job as an Electrical Engineer, I've been trading my ways up and down since 2nd January 2008 with so many improvements and lessons learned along the way. Most of these lessons are rather painful experiences that I would have avoided if I knew them in advance.

The fact is, most of the things that I personally encountered are actually written in the first book that I read about trading (ie. Trade for A Living by Alex Alexander) and yet, still the tendency of repeating them exists within me especially if I am not being careful enough.

Depends on whether you want to believe the facts written below or not, but those are the one that I truly and personally believe about the forex trading as of my current experiences. I would re-visit these points a year from now and see whether there are any changes to these opinions.

No 1. The forex market is highly volatile especially during major news release and London Session (3pm - 12am Malaysian time). Mainly due to high volume and liquidity with plenty of market participants inclusive central banks, institutional traders, tycoons as well as retail traders like us.

2. There are so many factors that drive these price movements inclusive economic data, stock exchange activities as well as geopolitical sentiments. Easy said, the market moves accordingly to what the majority believes. Period.


3. It's all about buying and selling. We buy when we believe the price would move up and sell when we believe the price would move down.


Those are the 3 keys... but the points that I really want to share with my viewers are:

1. Just like in any field, there are no easy ways and shortcuts to be successful in forex trading... nope... just don't ask again. Those adverts that you saw in your emails and websites are purely gimmicks. I repeat... they are purely marketing gimmicks. They want you to buy and that's it...

2. In order to be consistently profitable, you must time your entry well. It's all about getting into the right trade and profit shall come accordingly. But of course, we always ask how? This is where you have to choose or come up with your own trading rules and system.

3. Discipline and patience are the 2 most important foundations in your trading. Without these you will never survive in the long run... never ever... I really mean it...

4. Risk management is the key to everything, since there is no one who could get it correct all the time. No one! So, though correct entry is vital for your profits, but then proper risk management is the one that will protect you from catastrophic fall-downs during any bad trade.

5. The market strength is imminent. No question about that. You got to trade with your eyes open and see what is happening in the price movements, regardless of what the market analysts said.

6. You cannot be an average trader if you are really serious about trading. Average traders lose money almost every time.

7. Be smart but do not be too smart. You have to develop a 6th sense in reading the market's direction. Like it or not, you got to trust your own analysis and take your chances base on calculated risk coz there is no way you can tell for sure how the market would move exactly... no one can... and don't trust what the analysts said blindly... they are occasionally wrong as well...

8. If the robots or EA's can do all the tradings, Wall Street would have been emptied from humans or floor traders. The point here, automated trading is possible, but not the best... a combination of both could work well but still manual trading is the best.

9. Anyone can easily give up if they are not properly educated about the market.

10. So many thought that trading is easy, in which anyone can make quick bucks in short time. It is true though, especially on the opposite site of the equation. Base on my own experience... it is not...

11. Self control is the real steering wheel to your trading activities. Learn to control yourself and you will trade well. Don't rush in taking any position in the market... chances are you will regret them...

12. As humans, we all make mistakes. But as traders, any stupid mistake is costly so you must leanr and strive your best in minimizing these trading mistakes.

13. Ride your profit, only with stop loss at breakeven. If you are already in the 100++ region in profits and you plan for a 500 pips gain, fine... but move your stops accordingly, at least to the breakeven point or higher within the profit region. There's nothing more frustrating than to see a 200pips plus trade later turn to a loser... at least don't lose even if you don't gain anything.

14. Do not hold your breath too long under the water. When you're wrong, think again about the feasibility of that trade - is it worth it to hold? are you still trading according to your plan? - and decide quickly as the market do not wait for your decision. Unless you have a strong reason not to pull out the trade until certain level, the best is just to exit and forget about it. Wait for the next trade setup to appear. Personally, this has helped me a lot with my trading and one of the hardest thing to program under my subconcious mind.

15. Always trade with stop loss set upfront, but of course not too small. My typical is between 50 to 100. Yeah some old timers had adviced me not to use stops as brokers would hunt these stops especially during thin markets. It could be true but just imagine when a sudden unexpected news hit the market that change the course of direction significantly... though your margin may be able to survive until it becomes -2000 pips (wow!), but think again... would you be able to wait for the price to come back... it could be days, weeks or months... most of the time, it's not worth it... after all, you will only become a trader who waits for accident to happen. You may be safe with zero loss for quite a long time especially if you're trading small and correctly, but then don't forget it only take one significant mistake to destroy it all... just don't do this...

16. You must keep yourself updates with the market's condition at all time since the market is highly dynamic. Things that you thought impossible to happen could happen within seconds in forex trading and something that you don't know could hurt your account badly.

17. Risk small... since this is the real key to avoid trading emotionally coz you know no matter what happen, you will still be comfortable with your balance even if you got the next one wrong...

18. All new traders must learn to position their trade accordingly to their account size. Otherwise, 1 trade is all you need before you can kiss goodbye to the market.

19. Learn to read fibonacci levels as well as identifying previous highs (resistance) & previous lows (support). Newbies always put unrealistic targets and one of the reason is due to their negligence to these levels. When you set your target blindly purely based on wishful thinking rather than technical reasonings, chances are your wishes won't come true. I can guarantee you..

20. Always trade with the broker especially during thin market conditions. Try looking at the chart from a higher view and try to locate at which price would most stops are located. Another easy way is to read the SSI (Speculative Sentiment Index) provided by dailyfx. When the ratio is significant, chances are you can easily guess where most stops are being placed by the retail traders. But of course, this is better done with scalping strategy.

21. Last but not least for now, this is very important. Don't rely on your trading signals blindly no matter how good it was in the past or claimed by the owners. To me, any trader must first understand the basic concepts of supply and demand. These two's are the one that really moves the market. When market is in consensus, it is really easy to trade with one way direction with some minor swings due to profit takings and repositionings. But when the candle is forming a 'doji' with significant tails at both side, the best way is to stay out or scalp your way carefully. Signals are helpers but they could not guarantee anything. The reason I am highlighting this is because there are simply many occasions when the signals are so clear and convincing, and later turned into whipsaws... In laymen words - You thought it surely happens this time and put bigger money into risk and later frustrated when later you discovered that it was a false signal. So beware!

Hmmmm... What else? I guess that's all for now...

Sounds too much to share and yet too little space to explain...

Anyway, just to let you know that my journey in this trading world has been very very interesting so far especially when good money is made along the way... and to see some of my friends are doing the same things with their accounts after sharing some thoughts and knowledge that I wrote here somewhere...

Till then... enjoy your weekend...

Saturday, October 17, 2009

RANGING, TRENDING AND BREAKING OUT...

These are the 3 market conditions that any day trader should be well aware of... Shown above is the 1HR candles for GBP/JPY between 14th Oct - 16th October (Wed - Thu - Fri last week)

Why?
1. There are times when you scalp your trade up and down when the movements are trending in one way or breaking imminently the other way.

2. There are times when you thought the price is trending north but the fact it is ranging or breaking in other way.

3. There are many times when you plan for breakouts gain but then it either maintains in certain sideways range channel or trending channels. It just never happens...

In any of this condition, you have to plan your trade accordingly to the environment that is presented upon you. Since otherwise, you could end up losing or not making good profits when there is a golden opportunity.

For instance, last Wednesday night was a very good example on how undiscipline act could lose you a very good swing opportunity. I was going long on the GBP/JPY pair, entering at exactly 143.00 with profit target at 147.00.

Sounds too big right with 400 pips as target. Well, we'll see...

Initially I plan to swing this position with breakeven stop loss once I reach a 50 pip gain position. The next morning, yes it is already in the positive 50 region and I immediately move my stop loss to breakeven at 143.00 and profit target at 147.00. With GJ pair, you know anything can happen especially on Thursday and Friday.

I told myself not to check the market again until Friday night as I should have nothing to worry about with the zero dollar at risk. Worse case scenario is I won't gain anything from this position. So why worry?

But then, by afternoon, I couldn't resist but to check again on this position and yes, it is still in good position but not even in the 50 pips region. First, I have violated what I pledged that morning, and then come the second violation -> I closed the position at merely 40 pips gain... I guess not being greedy could be the best option.

And yes, afterwards, I did not look at the market at all. And you knew what happened?

That afternoon, just hours before London Session is opened, BOE announced that they will stop their Asset Purchasing programs at least for a while. What does this mean? It means, they will stop pouring the sterlings into the market and hence will increase the demand for the sterling again.

By that announcement, the pound rallied like a crazy horse going to the north especially seen on the GJ and GU pair, and I didn't notice this was happening until later that Thursday night...

By 8.00pm Thursday, the pair has already reached 146.97, shying 3 pips away from my original target, if I were to hold that position. WTF! I told myself... and how am I supposed to know that this could happen?

And to cut the story short, by the next day (Friday), the pair even went beyond the 149.00 marks in which a potential 600++ pips has gone. Huh.. what a lost... In the refining business, we would call it LPO (Lost Profit Opportunity) everytime the plant failed to make money... it's not real lost in terms of assets, but still a lost considering that good opportunities do not come all the time...

See, the point is, the market is very dynamic and do not behave the way you expected it to be all the times. And you need to stick with your original plan, with some flexibility when necessary. In this case, I never thought such news would hit the market and that is the reason why I pulled out.

Like what Soros always said, it is not a matter of being right or wrong, but how much you gain when you're ight and how much you lose when you're wrong.

In my case, I guess I have no objection to that statement AT ALL. Soros is absolutely right & I need to learn on getting big gains once in a while when I am correct coz I do lose big when I was wrong last time...

Have A Nice Weekend.... ;)



Monday, October 12, 2009

SUSAH SANGAT KE NAK JADI BAIK?...

Aku selalu tertanya dan terfikir tentang manusia-manusia yang suka membuat kerosakan dan kejahatan di muka bumi ini...

Adakah mereka ini memang ditakdirkan begitu atau mereka memilih untuk hidup sebegitu? Adakah ini sebahagian dari kesalahan cara ibubapa mendidik anak atau sekadar sudah ditentukan sebagai insan insan terpilih yang hidupnya ditakdirkan sebagai ujian dan pengajaran kepada hamba-hamba Allah SWT yang lain?

Pelik tetapi benar... inilah hakikat yang perlu diterima.

Bagi mereka yang diuji dengan kesempitan hidup dan fenomena dimana persoalan antara hidup dan mati menjadi taruhan, aku mampu memahami kejahatan yang dilakukan walaupun tidak redha dengan perbuatan yang sedemikian..

Tetapi... bagi mereka yang dikelilingi dan dilimpahi kesenangan dan kasih sayang yang secukupnya, aku agak sukar untuk memahami perbuatan mereka... kenapa?

Peluang terbentang luas. Bantuan keliling pinggang. Kesihatan dan kesempurnaan tubuh badan diberikan secukupnya oleh yang Maha Esa untuk berusaha dan maju ke hadapan, tetapi mereka tetap dengan perbuatan mereka yang jijik dan kotor disisi manusia... apatah lagi di sisi Allah SWT.

Persoalannya... perlukah mereka ini diberi peluang untuk hidup di muka bumi ini? Kenapa manusia sebegini tidak diletakkan di bumi Palestin agar mereka belajar mensyukuri nikmat keamanan dan kedamaian hidup?

Inilah antara perkara yang terbenam di dalam benak fikiranku ketika ini... aku tertanya-tanya... dan tak mampu hendak mencari jawapan yang sebenarnya... aku cuba membantu, tetapi sekadar apa yang termampu...

Kepada insan-insan yang berkenaan yang mungkin terbaca dengan tulisan aku yang tidak seberapa ni (walaupun sangat ikhlas)... renung-renungkanlah diri kamu dan cubalah kembali ke pangkal jalan...

Tanya diri sendiri...

1. Dimanakah aku akan berakhir jika aku berterusan berkelakuan begini?

2. Selamatkah aku di dunia & akhirat dengan perbuatan aku ini?

3. Adakah insan yang akan menyayangi aku sekiranya aku tetap begini?

4. Apakah akibatnya jika aku tidak menyesali perbuatan aku ini?

5. Apakah balasan yang akan aku terima sekiranya aku tidak belajar mensyukuri dengan segala nikmat yang diberikan Tuhan selama ini?

Percayalah... belum terlambat untuk seseorang itu untuk memperbaiki dirinya apabila kesedaran itu timbul. Yang menjadi masalah adalah kepada mereka-mereka yang tak sedar-sedar diri ni... atau senang cakap, "tak sedar dek untung"...

Suka tak suka, ketahuilah tiada jalan singkat dan mudah untuk berjaya dalam hidup, apatah lagi di akhirat kelak. Jika di dunia pun engkau sudah dipandang hina, apakah kamu pasti dengan nasib kamu di akhirat kelak? Siapa yang akan membela kamu?

Ingatlah, walaupun aku bukan Ustaz, tetapi aku sentiasa berpegang kepada asas agama & kewujudan makhluk Adam di dunia ini. Hakikatnya, kita semua dilahirkan sebagai Khalifah Allah SWT dan sekiranya kita tidak mempersiapkan diri kita ke arah itu... tidak lain dan tidak bukan tiada maknanya hidup kita di dunia ini... dan sia-sia sajalah segala perbuatan yang disangka baik selama ini... apatah lagi perbuatan jahat...

Cuba tanya diri sendiri... Berapa lama lagi aku mampu hidup sebelum Allah SWT mengarahkan malaikat Izrail datang untuk merentap nyawa aku? 10 tahun? 5 tahun? tahun depan? bulan depan? minggu depan? esok? lusa? SubhanAllah... belajar belajarlah insaf...

Bersyukurlah banyak banyak jika engkau masih mampu bernafas dan boleh melihat mentari naik di ufuk timur dan terbenam di ufuk barat setiap hari... sesungguhnya kita tidak tahu waktu bila kita akan dijemput... maka gunakanlah peluang yang ada sebaik-baiknya sebelum kita mati... kerana hakikatnya kita semua akan kembali ke Alam Barzakh suatu hari nanti... suka tak suka itu adalah PASTI... yang membezakan hanya cepat atau lambat sahaja...

Kepada semua termasuklah diri aku sendiri, renung-renungkanlah sebelum terlambat... dan mulakanlah dengan pembersihan hati... buang segala perasaan hasad dengki dan salah sangka yang berselindung di sebalik bisikan iblis dan syaitan yang sentiasa ada disisi untuk memesongkan kita...
Sebaiknya mulakan dengan selawat sebanyak mungkin ke atas junjungan kita setiap hari, kerana selawat itu umpama air sejuk yang menjernihkan hati kita... diiringi dengan zikir zikir yang lain....
Kesimpulannya, pada aku banyak lagi perkara kebajikan & berfaedah (i.e belajar, buat bisnes, cari duit, tolong orang dsb) yang boleh kita lakukan sementara kita hidup selain dari kejahatan, kemungkaran dan kerosakan... jadi kenapa pilih jalan yang sesat?

Pokok pangkal pilihan ditangan kita sendiri... maka pilihlah jalan yang benar dan diredhai Allah SWT... kerana itulah sebaik-baik pilihan...
Kalau nak buat jahat juga, terpulanglah... tetapi bersedialah dengan segala malapetaka yang bakal menimpa... kerana yakinlah... setiap perbuatan itu PASTI ada balasannya...

Wallahualam...








Friday, October 9, 2009

A NEW TRADER IS BORNED...


6th October 2009 - Tuesday @ 11.26pm... @ Pantai Hospital, Ayer Keroh, Melaka...

I have a new born baby-boy after almost 7 hours battling (my spouse of course) in the labor room. Thanks to Dr Nor Hanisah and all the mid-wives who have been very very supportive in assisting my wife's natural delivery process... I knew it's not easy as the Dr had almost decided to carry her to the OT room for operation, but she waited instead... thanks again Doc...

It was an unforgettable experience for sure as for any father to see the live show of how a kid is brought out to this world. No wonder whenever you had a fight with your parents they would somehow mentioned that - "if only you knew how hard it was to deliver you..." - then you would probably think twice everytime you feel like hurting their feelings.

Yet to name him to this day but a good name shall follow... It's been more than 5 years waiting for this precious addition to my family and I shall do whatever it takes to ensure that he'd get all the things he deserves as my son...

When it comes to family, I knew nothing else matters as no money in this world could replace them, the one that you love most...

;)